{birthday's & baby belly's}

{a few wedding videos}

Thank you Brielle & Matt for recording this for us!!  =)

{happy father's day!}

I'm sure everyone knows that my dad lives 3,000 miles away in Tucson, Arizona. It really sucks not being able to see him whenever I want--I really, really miss him!! I know I'm a "grown up" and I shouldn't need my dad around all the time and blah, blah, blah-- but I do. He moved away when I was 17, and while I do agree that it is best he not live in the state of South Carolina (long story-- messy divorce.) It would be nice if he lived a little closer.. 

From the time I started playing softball at 5 years old until I was 18, my dad was always my coach. Back when we still lived in Texas, he was even the President of the softball association. He taught me how to pitch (mostly because I was the only kid he could fully control and make sure I actually practiced, ha!) which I ended up LOVING! When he would make me practice and I didn't want to, I would intentionally hit the bucket he was sitting on to knock him off =) He coached my teams, my little sister's teams, and NOW he is coaching his girlfriend's daughters team! So, he's now been coaching one of our softball teams for 17 years!! That's a lot of little girl hormones and temper tantrums to put up with! =) 

I love you, dad! Happy 22nd Father's Day! =)

On another subject, my baby sister is turning FIFTEEN on June 27th. WHERE has time gone?? I remember the day she was born, and how when she was in 1st grade she would cry every single day about something. Thank God that's over with! Before I know it she is going to be graduating high school, starting college and getting married. AHH! As Ginni always says, "She's only 7-- she does not have a boyfriend, she is not going into 10th grade, she is not about to start driving etc."

Me, Jordan & Derek-- August 1995

Ginni & Jordan at Derek's 16th birthday-- July 2005

Me, Jordan & Derek-- May 2000

Us 10 years later =) -- 2010

It's crazy how much things can change in TEN years!

Disclaimer:

{ I know I blog mostly in pictures, it's how I best express myself =) }

wedding album.

Here is the finished copy of the wedding album. Eventually I will get a nicer one, but for now this works =) It takes a few minutes for all of the pictures to fully load-- there aren't really any white pages..

{many, many random thoughts.}

--So, I now have oral thrush from my steroids. I swear, I have the absolute worst luck of anyone I have ever met. I just started the steroids on Tuesday and all of the sudden Thursday night my throat starting hurting (I have my tonsils out, so I knew it wasn't that), my glads were really swollen and SO sore, and I had one of those annoying bumps on my tongue-- but more painful and larger.  My family is in Washington D.C right now, so I sent my mom a picture and she said she though it could be thrush. I looked it up and one of the causes of it is steroids. Well, by Friday afternoon I could barely talk my tongue was so swollen, so I  called the on-call doctor when I got off. She was kind enough to meet me last night and prescribed me some "magic mouthwash." But of course, freaking CVS didn't have it yesterday so it's supposed to be ready by noon today.


Let's please hope the rest of this year is much better than the first half. There aren't many ways it could get much worse.


--On a much more positive note, I found a website where you can make your own book. I'm not too creative but I am so proud of the wedding album I made! I finished it the other day and I'm still debating whether or not I want to put my Bridal Shower and Honeymoon pictures in our copy.

--Now, on to a completely random subject. WHY are so many people getting divorced already? I know so many people around my age that are already getting divorced and I just don't understand it. I completely agree with certain circumstances like cheating etc., but the majority of these girls are acting like it's no big deal to be 22 and getting divorced. I just don't get it. You made a committment before your loved ones, your husband and God to be together through better or worse, sick times and in health-- til' death did you part. It seems like so many young couples are getting married just for the heck of it-- like they don't have anything better to do on a Saturday. For the most part, I don't think anyone should get married until you have been together for at least 2 years. In less than a year generally you don't know someone well enough to be able to tell whether you could spend your life with them. Alan and I have been through so much even before we got engaged. I knew that if we could make it through all of that, we could make it through most anything. Tough times really are a true test of any relationship.

 --Here's a few pictures of Alan and me throughout the years--

One of our first pictures together. (February 2007)

2008

2009

Our first kiss as husband and wife =) 

2010

..another wedding video.

finally an answer..

I decided to change my primary care physican because I felt like no one was listening to me and everyone was just sending me from doctor to doctor. I went from the OB office that did my surgery, to my old primary care physican, to a general surgeon, then they wanted me to go to a pain specialist, neurologist and a BACK surgeon. That was it, I was fed up. You don't send someone to a back surgeon without even knowing what's wrong.. that's just stupid. So, I went to my new doctor on Tuesday and after about 10 minutes of talking with me and trying to reproduce my pain-- she made a diagnosis. =)

This is what I have. She put me on a few different pain medicines, an anti-inflammatory and steroids. I start physical therapy next  week to hopefully correct this now so I can avoid surgery. She said it's something I will unfortunately have to deal with my whole life, but through physical therapy I will learn some things to do to help it and things not to do that will only make it worse. I am SO thankful they have finally figured this out after being in pain daily since January. The doctor also said that my first surgery in January more than likely caused this, but it would have eventually happened anyway.

{honeymoon part 2.}

While we were in Mexico we met another couple on their honeymoon, Ryan & Shannon who are from California. Since we forgot to pack our camera battery charger, Shannon was SO sweet to let us use one of her extra cameras =) Here are some pictures from her camera. 

Us playing Blackjack in the pool!

It was soo hot there.. 

I <3 my husband!  =)

 Us with Ryan & Shannon at our honeymoon dinner.

One side of our resort =) It was huge!

{honeymoon.}

Cancun! =)

The swim up bar.

 

Our new friend, Iggy. He liked chicken and french fries. 

Chichen Itza. 

The gorgeous water!

Before our snorkeling adventure..

..you know I'm bored.

50 of the most random things you probably never needed to know about someone. 

1. whats your name spelled backwards?
rehtaeh.

2. What did you do last night?

Worked until 6pm, got sushi to go for dinner and watched a movie =)

3. The last thing you downloaded onto your computer?
My wedding pictures.

4. Have you ever licked a 9 volt battery?
uh, no.

5. Last time you swam in a pool?
Earlier this month in Mexico.

6. What are you wearing?
t-shirt and shorts.

7. How many cars have you owned?
two. Betty the Beetle & CiCi the Civic.

8. Type of you dislike most?
type of what?

9. Are you registered to vote?
yes. have I actually voted? no.

10. Do you have cable?
yep.

11. What kind of computer do you use?
Macbook. 

12. Ever made a prank phone call?
nope.

13. You like anyone right now?
I like my husband most days.

14. Would you go bungee jumping or sky diving?
I went skydiving in 2007.

15. Furthest place you ever traveled?
Mexico. 

16.Do you have a garden?
nope.

17. What's your favorite comic strip?
none.

18. Do you know all the words to the national anthem?
yes.

19. Shower, morning or night?
morning.

20. Best movie you've seen in the past ?
Up in the Air & The Blindside.

21. Favorite pizza toppings?
Margherita pizza from Carrabbas. (roma tomatoes, mozzarella cheese, basil, salt &pepper) yum!

22. Chips or popcorn?
It depends on what kind of chips. hint of lime chips are my absolute favorite.

23. What do you have?
a puppy, a husband, a job.

24. Have you ever smoked peanut shells?

uh, no. I didn't even know you could do that??

25. Have you ever been in a pageant?

Miss Chapin.

26. Orange or apple?

Orange. 

27. Who were the last people you sat at lunch with and where?

Tiffany and Brielle yesterday at Mellow Mushroom =)

28. favorite bar?

Copper River. (cheap beer. )

29. Who is your longest friend and how long?

Ginni, I think we met in 8th grade during softball--something like that. And my cousin, Kristin, we met when we were 2.

30. Last time you ate a homegrown tomato?

homegrown, who knows.

31. Have you ever won a trophy?

Yep. I have quite a collection from softball. 

32.Favorite artist?

I don't have one.

33. Favorite computer game?

I don't play computer games/ games in general.

34. Ever ordered from an infomercial?

nope.

35. Sprite or 7-UP?

Sprite.

36. Have you ever had to wear a uniform to school/work?

I had to wear a uniforn in 6th grade.

37. Last thing you bought at Walgreens?

A prescription.

38. Ever thrown up in public?

well, technically. 

39. Would you prefer being a millionaire or finding true love?

true love. duh.

40. Do you believe in love at first sight?

not really, no.

41.Can exes just be friends?

I don't really want to find out. I don't think so though.

42. Who was the last person you visited in the hospital?

My sister last month.

43. Did you have long hair as a young kid?

YES!

44. What message is on your voicemail machine?

one Alan makes fun of me for.

45. Where would you like to go right now?

Europe.

46. What was the name of your first pet?

Boomer.

47. What kind of back pack do you have, and what's in it?

North Face. & probably something I've been looking for.

48. Last incoming/outgoing call on your phone?

my mom/ alan.

49. What is one thing you are grateful for today?

Wonderful family, friends & husband.

50. What do you think about most?

health issues and school. 

thank you notes.

IT'S A BOY!

 My friend Brielle found out on Thursday she is having a BOY! I am so excited for her!!  =)

some people.

I can not STAND relationships where one person is completely controlling the other. I absolutely hate when girls say they "have to ask___ " before they buy a t-shirt or lunch. What the hell?? Can they not think for themselves? And now, one particular person is now trying to control me and what I say to my friend. I'm sorry, I am just being a good friend. Sorry that this bothers you. (fyi--this is not me I am talking about.) I am just really irritated so I am venting here.


Also-- USC denied our claim for a refund of Alan's school tuition that we paid in January. I guess an Ectopic Pregnancy, emergency surgery and the death of his child wasn't a "valid" reason for them. We will be making a trip down there next week to find out why they denied it. It is absolute bullshit.

On another note-- I went to the doctor today about a sharp pain I've having in my groin since January. They're pretty sure it's either a hernia or pinched nerve. aweome. I have another appointment on Monday to get a second opinion.